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Jehovah’s Witnesses don’t Mourn the Aurora Victims

Submitted by Teeny on July 23, 2012 - 10:57 am 61 Comments

A distraught family, possibly belonging to one of the Aurora victimsHi guys. As a lot of you know, I left “The Truth” in 2009. I am not disfellowshipped yet, but have no association with the Witnesses. I do though, have various conversations with my mother-in-law, who – even though she has no idea why 607 B.C.E. bears any relevance to her religion – still goes.

Yesterday, she contacted the wife and I and wanted to share the terrible news relating to the Aurora victims. As I am sure you know, 12 people died when a lone gunman thought it prudent to start shooting at everyone during a midnight screening of The Dark Knight Rises.

Before I get into the conversation with my mother-in-law, I wanted to let you know that every now and then, the Watchtower Society creeps up and manages to surprise me. I am sure this still happens to you to. Even though I’ve been out of their clutches for three years, I am still startled by the things this cult teaches within its churches (or if you want to use the JW Loaded Language Dictionary – Kingdom Halls).

Prior to my mother-in-law calling, we were watching the news and saw various religious leaders from around the world and from different religions giving their condolences. “Our prayers are with the families of the victims and our hearts go out to them,” said Archbishop of Canterbury, Dr. Rowan Williams. Archbishop Samuel Aquila and Auxiliary Bishop James Conley of the Catholic Church said “As Catholic bishops, we ‘weep with those who weep.”

What message did the Watchtower Society have? My mother-in-law told us the following:

“At the meeting in the public talk today, the Elder told us about the killings in America. I knew about it because I saw it on the news already. I was very shocked by what he said though. He said:

“Brothers and Sisters, how many times has Jehovah’s Organisation told us to look after our young children? Those that died in the Aurora shootings were out at midnight to watch a film about a vigilante. To my knowledge, no Jehovah’s Witnesses were harmed because no Jehovah’s Witnesses were present. The world puts things out on a plate for us and our children and we are free to take what we want. But Brothers, there are consequences. If the parents of these victims had educated their children theocratically, the shooter would have been staring into an empty auditorium.

“Let us continue educating our children in Jehovah’s theocracy. After all, Jehovah wrote this guidebook for us. He knows what’s best for us and our little ones. So Brothers, keep on the watch, for Satan the Devil uses many cunning devices. Let us make sure we and our children are never engaging in worldly activities. How would you feel if you were one of the victims parents?”

Pardon me if I am wrong, but that was quite a stone cold retort from a religion that says its foundations are built on love.

My mother-in-law went on a bit, but I had heard enough to be truly surprised. So many religious leaders from around the world are leaving their condolences, yet the Jehovah’s Witness hierarchy is using what happened as an example of how to better control its members.

The thing that shocked me the most was that this was a public talk. An outline was given by the Society and the Elder prepared the talk based on the points Head Quarters gave him. Yet he managed to add a whole new section ‘to give a witness.’

Do you now see why people like me refer to the Jehovah’s Witnesses as a cult?

Next time you’re in Aurora, Colorado, walk into a bar, restaurant, or hell, knock on someone’s door and tell them that if the victims were Jehovah’s Witnesses, there would be no victims. If you’re not a victim by the time you finish your sentence, I’ll be pleasantly shocked.

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Our hearts go out to the families of the Aurora victims that tragically lost their lives on Friday morning. We hope the injured victims pull through and make a full recovery.

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  1. Harold July 23, 2012
    I wonder why that kind sympathetic ‘elder’ did’nt go further in his hatred dialogue and say just outright that it was ‘actually the victims fault’ for the tragedy’ and it happened solely because they were’nt ‘Jehovah’s Witnesses’.

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    Teeny Reply:

    To be honest with you Harold, he did go as far as saying that. I omitted it because my mother-in-law wasn’t sure of the exact wording he used.

    Also, after the meeting, this Elders wife also had her bit to add. She told my mother-in-law that “this presents an excellent opportunity for the Brothers and Sisters in Aurora now.” And something like (I am paraphrasing here…) “Satan tried to cause disruption, but from this darkness, Jehovah will show these people the light.”

    By “these people”, I am pretty sure she’s talking about the Aurora victims families and friends.

    It sickens you, doesn’t it?

    Regards,
    Jaymes

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    Kim Reply:

    If there had been a promotion for a party and people had been informed of immoral acts, drug use, and alcohol consumption and people went to this party they would expect that these things would be present. Would it be wrong not to think that many of those at the party would be those that condone such immoral acts? The movie was one of extreme violence, those who condone violence would be present there. The saying is, play with fire and you’ll get burned. It’s sad that there is so much violence in the world today. It is horrible that people in the world condones it to the point of giving their hard earned money supporting it. The Elder is a man of love and he was giving counsel to his fellow servants of Jehovah that the trust put into Jehovah’s counsel and word has once again proved wise and has provided them with escape. Jehovah instructs his servants to not be part of the world and to not partake of worldly things. Jehovah instructs his loving servants to keep themselves seperated from the world. By doing so they keep themselves safe and secure.

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    BEN Reply:

    Kim you should tell the elders who have television and satellite tv in their houses who also buy DVD of films they like… the reason I don’t take JW point of view is because they are brain washed… even my closest friend and I always argue. he is a JW and we love each other. but I see that his behaviour sometimes is programmed by WT. he likes movies, and he likes the action ones… Violence has been with humans from the start till now… you watch entertainment doesn’t mean you like violence if all that watch it likes it why don’t they stay and cause violence… or you can tell me JW don’t involve in violence… What a bunch of hypocrites

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    Andrew Reply:

    Kim,

    I usually try not to get insulting at comments, but I can’t help myself this time. What a disgusting thing to say! Do you not realise how vile your comment is? What if the movie had been Ice Age? Would that have made a difference as to how horrible the shootings were? What if a relative of yours had been there? Don’t be so distasteful! Shame on you. You are an example of how religion can make a good person say or do something completely horrible.

    Your comment is also incorrect as per Jehovah’s Witness doctrine (I assume you are a JW) – god does not protect Jehovah’s Witnesses as individuals, but as a group, according to the Watchtower.

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    Steve Reply:

    Kim,
    I too wish there was less violence seen as entertainment in the movies. But this is not a time for discussion about the content of the movie these people were going to see! Bringing that up in this context is both insensitive and, I fear in your case hypocritical.

    As you well know, the Bible is chock-full of violence, including graphic accounts of genocide committed by the “heroes of the Bible”. It contains much more violence than any movie I have ever seen. Also, movies are make-believe: the violence is not real, whereas the accounts in the Bible are taken by believers to be historically accurate accounts to which they implicitly give their stamp of approval.

    If they made a movie about the Bible and showed the Israelites hacking open pregnant Canaanite women with their swords would you denigrate the people who went to see it for approving of violence? If a madman shot the movie-goers would you maintain that they, in effect, had it coming to them for having attended a violent movie?

    I guess you won’t be going to the Kingdom Hall then anymore to associate with people who read, discuss, and approve of such violence.

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    Sarah Reply:

    Well, Kim how nice of you to show how brainwashed the jw really are. When trying to defend the watchtower and the elders most of you don’t realize you be putting your foot in your mouthes. Blaming this situation on the movie and on how those ppl are not jw and that is why Jehovah didn’t protect them is just sick. Idk where you live but here in the US many jw went to see the screening at midnight a lot of your bros and sis go all out to support and spend their time and money to go watch those type of movies everytime they come out. And by all out i mean they buy the gears, tickets in advance etc. Do you also think that the movie will influence them in a way? It is so funny how you guys always claim to not be part of the world and all other rubbish but yet you guys party or shall i say have get togethers, go to the movies, drink, play video games etc You guys are as much part of the world as everybody else, if you guys weren’t i’m sure all of your time would be spent at the kh with no music, tv, cell phones or anything that can entertain you, you will have your head stuck in wt mag and your bible 24/7, 365/6 days a yr. Practice what you preach hunny

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  2. Chris July 23, 2012
    So its their fault that they died because they saw a “wordly” movie?

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  3. Richard Barron July 23, 2012
    They sound like the Westboro Baptist Church.

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  4. johnny July 23, 2012
    ohh man my blood pressure is up and i feel like swearing but then that is typical of cults.

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  5. Spiritualbrother July 23, 2012
    Sounds quite inhuman and disgusting.

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  6. zeb July 23, 2012
    Not the sort of movie i would have gone to.
    But That elders logic says the woman who is raped going to work should have stayed home.
    So we are all protected in the Kingdom Halls are we? Ask that young woman from California who just won the court case.

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    Anna Reply:

    The walls of the Kingdom halls certainly did NOT protect me.In fact they were the window to a buffet for the abusers inside those walls to choose what child they would like to prey on next.

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  7. Liz July 23, 2012
    Nice. Glad I left 34 years ago.

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  8. Don July 23, 2012
    Thanks for your insight. I am not a JW. Since you left the organization do you have any spiritual beliefs?

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  9. mark palo July 23, 2012
    Why am I not surprised? this enforces the title of “Cocoon” that Barbara Anderson used in the title of her book. You’re supposed to feel all warm, fuzzy, and safe as long as you suck at the teat of the Watchtower. Of course no JW’s were at the midnite screening because they were too fatigued from having to knock on doors all day and attend the meetings. The bOrg should have their own version of the “Dark Knight” and call it Flicker Man. A stupid, er I meant a super hero who flickers in and out of peoples minds with new understandings. His arch enemy is Mighty Truth Man who makes Flicker Man stain his BVD’s when exposing him to the light of truth.

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  10. Sara July 23, 2012
    While I do not agree with the control aspect, I do have to wonder….I heard there were young kids in the audience. If they were not young, then ignore this, but if they were young, their parents kind of suck.

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  11. Bonnie July 23, 2012
    This reminds me of the attitude and what I heard growing up as a J Dub at the Kingdom Hall and assemblies when the subject of Armageddon came up and people felt sorry for the children who would die. Time and again, from the stage we were told, “big rats produce little rats.” So we should not feel sorry for them.

    I was just making the comparison yesterday on my page between Dubs and the Westboro Baptist Church. The JW Cult is much more insidious than the WBC because it does evil under the guise of love, compassion and the lie that this is what Jehovah God wants us to do, and think and feel.

    I got out after 40 years. My kids got out a few years later. It’s a horrible, sickening, heartless organization that shows no fellow feeling for human suffering.

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  12. Sakura July 23, 2012
    I heard about the shooting from my dad while I was sleeping. I was actually prompted to go with my “worldly” friends that night. And i really wanted to but i can’t ever do things like that simply because I live at home with my JW parents and I attend the meetings. I never liked these non-biblical rules. And what makes me mad is that my mom said something along the same lines. “well you know there weren’t any Jehovah’s witnesses there.” and I replied There may have not been in Colorado but I know of JWs going to midnight showings and one family who even gets to go on stage took his whole family to see the avengers! she used the excuse that well he’s young he doesn’t know. No excuse. I wish they would just let people live. And now my mom told me this morning that there’s a “mandatory” meeting. All my life I’ve been told that when they announce that it means something is going to happen. Is Jehovah talking to them? Should I be afraid?… Making the choice sort of seems like accepting your own “death certificate” as one ex jw said.

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    Chris Reply:

    mandatory meeting? so if you don’t go something would happen?

    they’ve been saying that for years and nothing has happend. they say “no one knows the day or hour” pretening to the end of the world, so how can they know?

    If you are of age where you can make your own decesions, just dont go. I left at the age of 17. I’m 22 now. my family relationships are rough but hey, at least I don’t suffer anymore. At least not in this case.

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    Sakura Reply:

    My mom always said there will come a time when they announce having a mandatory meeting and everyone not there will be left out and not have a clue as to what’s going on. its as if there’s some secret plan. And you’re right. I’m of age (19, I’ll be 20 in September) but ahh i learned all this stuff like right after i got baptized and started dating. And i always wonder is it a trick. I don’t know if I’m supposed to feel like this but it’s just a little confusing.

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    Steve Reply:

    Yes, Sakura, it is a trick. Jehovah doesn’t talk to them, they just sit around and make this crap up. What they do is neither faithful nor discreet.
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  13. Isaac J. Harris July 23, 2012
    Once again, the Society is clueless about the impression they are making on “the world.” The bubble is so dense, they are simply unaware of what jerks they are. Let the gaffe machine continue.

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  14. Flo July 23, 2012
    Wow,my mom is a JW and even she would find that sickening! She was totally upset about the shooting,I thought she was going to cry.

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  15. Steve July 23, 2012
    Blaming the victims is nothing new for this organization. Remember that you could be disfellowshipped for having been raped.
    Oh, but they are such a “loving” group!

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  16. Deranged Jdub July 23, 2012
    Hi! I feel horrible about what happened. It sickens most heartfelt people! Your blog today really irriates me. The control is out of control! I am so sorry for those families! They HAVE TO HAVE our support! Some really good stuff could come from this in the form of folks getting involved in gun control or other “help” support groups.

    I am rambling, but so what. I have no affiliation to the link , I just thought it was very interesting info and wanted to share. http://christiananswers.net/q-aiia/aiia-top10cults.html …JDUBS MORE DANGEROUS THAN KKK… WOW! :) Love your site, and it is the only one I really follow.. the rest of the ex-Jdub sites tend to be on the BOO HOO side.. and I want to live my new life w/ no regret or bitterness.. Learned a lot and nope don’t want to dwell on it! Thanks for your site!

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  17. Paula Ann Walker July 23, 2012
    Sadly, this is no surprise for me, I have heard it so many times before relating to different tragedies, man made and natural. In fact, when my teenage son was attacked late one evening, after taking his girlfriend safely home; neither my parents, or my parents-in-law were sympathetic to his injuries. They all told my husband and I that at 15 years old, he should not have been out late at night. They went on to berate us that if we had remained ‘in The Truth’ it would not have happened.

    That was over 20 years ago now, and I have never, ever regretted walking away.

    Thanks for this post, so well written. Terribly sad. I’ll share, bec ause this cult need to be exposed.

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    Chris Reply:

    of course, because once you are in the cult you are protected from all bad. Yeah. didn’t help those who were captured by hitler.

    good thing you left. I was raised as one and left when I was 17. I’m 22 now. While i still struggle with making friends (since I had 0 growing up since my focus on on jehovah) at least I don’t have to worry about getting up early sunday mornings and going to the meetings to hear BS about this.

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  18. Lady Libertine July 23, 2012
    I found out about what happened from News coverage while sitting in a Hospital’s waiting room (my mother had an appointment). I remember hoping, that maybe, possibly, no one was dead because I hadn’t seen a number of the wounded yet. I was hearing stories, seeing interviews, but wasn’t hearing that anyone was dead. So imagine my gasp in horror and disbelief when I saw “71 wounded” cross the screen several minutes later.

    When I got home, I jumped online. I starting hearing more details, seeing victim’s faces. Learned the youngest victim was a six-year-old little girl. I started to cry.

    After I calmed down, I started sharing details of what the police had learned about the shooter with my mother.

    Do you know what she said?

    “I don’t want to hear anything else about it. That’s why I’m glad I don’t go to the show anymore. There’s nothing good. The first thing I wondered, was if any friends were there”.

    I bit my tongue and walked away.

    Same thing an elder said when he learned about Candice Conti.

    “It’s to be expected”.

    This is what happens when you brainwash and condition seven million people into believing that tragedy is inevitable before it springs into worldwide anarchy, and gives them persecutory complex to boot.

    Compassion? Love? Sympathy?

    Those things can become scarily non-existent in a community that wants the world to end soon so badly that they will latch on to anything as a “sign of the times”.

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  19. Robert7 July 23, 2012
    I remember the exact same sentiment, but much worse after the Sep 11th attacks. I went to the Kingdom Hall looking for comfort and support, and the only thing they mentioned were the 11 or so brothers killed. Never in that meeting or any future meeting did they mention the other 1000+ people who died. That forever left such an impression on me on how selfish, self-centered and thoughtless Witnesses really can be, and slowly led to my eventual leaving of the faith.

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  20. Harold July 24, 2012
    Last winter l flew to Vancouver from Edmonton to see the Stanley Cup hockey final. My Jehovah Witness mother upon hearing this said “Jehovahs Witnesses don’t go to Hockey games as that is a wordly event, and J.W.s are to be no part of the world.”

    She laid a guilt trip on me saying l was ‘cursed by Jehovah, cursed by the Holy Sprit, cursed by the Bible for having done so. Really?

    I responded that l was a formally disfellowshiped J.W. and that l don’t abide by their heneous priciples or ‘rules’. Have’nt for 20 years. I told her l did’nt want anything to do with her or her ‘cult’. I feel good for that sane decision.

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    Deranged jdub Reply:

    Total BS… in the States a lot of JDubs are season ticket holders to prof. Sports. Was it the game the Bruins won? GO BOSTON!!! :) AND we used to get game updates on our phone and discuss after meetings if the games were televised during meeting times…

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    noh8inmyheart Reply:

    “Hockey games as that is a wordly event, and J.W.s are to be no part of the world.”

    That’s far more preferable than spending the evening singing Kingdom Songs to a guitar accompaniment and I was forced to do many times when I was in the cult.

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  21. Ron Raymond July 24, 2012
    Not surprised as the rationale is Armageddon is any day now and those victims were dammed to eternal nothingness anyway.

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  22. Stephen dropp July 24, 2012
    Typical jw response

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  23. Jonathan July 24, 2012
    The thing about that elder’s comments is they seem like words directly from the WT because they fit in so well with the JW mindset, but the WT can deny it as an official stance because it will never appear in a sanctioned publication.

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    Deranged jdub Reply:

    That’s the same thought I had, however; the WBTS denies what they put in print too. I remember being told that we didn’t need to read the older publications, and what about everything printed regarding 1975? As long as you sit at home and read the bible, and preach- your life will be worry free.

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  24. Dillen July 24, 2012
    It wasn’t any one’s fault, that got shot, who went saw the new Batman movie…the guy obviously was sick in the head, for he LOVED what the joker could do to innocent people! I hope those who are injured do recover and those who didn’t make it, my heart goes out to their families. :3

    I saw it on news myself and the WTS are sick, sick people! They think it was those innocent people’s fault just for watching a movie, was something they asked for or expected at that time? JWs don’t know what they are talking about and as if the shooter would be staring in at an empty cinema room! Fantasy talk. JWs loaded language is nothing but fantasy talk, so they don’t know what is real any more. They make sick to my stomach! How dare they not show any sympathy for these innocent people! If it were me, what do you think my JW sister would be feeling right now, if I was there and survived the shooting by an injury? Would she listen to her JW friends talk her “down” about it as if it was my fault the Joker shot me or she’d have (hidden) sympathy for me? =S :3

    Sorry, I’m just angry…but my last question there is an example, IF I were there. :3

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  25. SheriO July 24, 2012
    I agree with Ron. They see these people as dead anyway unless they come to the kingdom hall especially if they leave the organization. They don’t realize that it makes them zombies to think this way. If they can profit off of someone’s tragedy and control their people all the better. (Now remember folks. Don’t go to late movies.) A little girl was fatally wounded that night. Its nobody’s fault except for the gunman’s. Her blood is on nobody else’s hands. How dare they blame these people for even being there. It seems like the man’s opinion was as good as fact when it would’ve been better to say nothing. If a JW had been there, would he be remembered as the one who went to the movie and got himself killed? Geeeeeez!

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  26. shuly July 24, 2012
    Please Jehovah’s Org. Is nt a cult becaus whn u re readng de Bible try 2 wt u read u cann’t fall into any vitim ad obey ur GodJehovah.

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    Andrew Reply:

    Shuly, learn how to type/spell so people can actually understand you. As far as I can tell, you don’t think JWs are cult because you can’t fall into any victim and obey your god?!

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  27. Jewel July 24, 2012
    An apostate is always be an apostate. U are not expected to speak favourably of Jehovah’s witnesses when u are an apostate. I’m not surprised. But rest assured that none who drag God’s name in the mud will go unpunished. U are free to continue with your slanderous defamation.

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    And an uneducated Jehovah’s Witness will always be an uneducated Jehovah’s Witness.

    http://www.jehovahswitnessblog.com/jw-education/the-watchtower-society-is-pro-education/

    Regards,
    Teeny

    PS. Tickets to the Birds Eating My Eyes Out show are now on sale. Be quick though as there’s limited seating.

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    Andrew Reply:

    Thanks for giving us your permission. Without it, I might have had to shut down the entire blog!

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    Steve Reply:

    Thanks for granting us apostates permission to continue, Jewel. But as apostates we don’t need your permission.

    I re-read Teeny’s post, and nowhere in there does he mention God’s name except when referring to the name of your group. So please tell us how God’s name was dragged in the mud by Teeny’s post.

    “Slanderous defamation” is rather a redundant phrase since slander is one form of defamation. Slander is spoken. What Teeny posted was written and so could not be slander. Defamation is the communication of false information stated as a fact which brings harm to an individual or an entity. Please tell us what information was given that was false. If nothing Teeny stated was false, then you owe Teeny an apology for your false accusation.

    If anyone could be accused of defaming God’s name it would have to be a group calling itself by God’s name who make outrageously insensitive statements like “they deserved to be shot for going to a violent movie”.

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    Bonnie Reply:

    That was beautiful, Steve.

    Oh and Jewel and shuly, what does your organization tell you about talking to apostates or visiting apostate sites? Why should we listen to a Witness who can’t even obey their organization’s instructions?

    Now here’s a fun little mental activity for you both: it’s called spot the conflation.

    Criticism of the Watchtower (a man made organization) is not the same as defaming god.

    Please repeat that to yourselves until it manages to sink in. Kthxbai!

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  28. Jimmy Frazier July 25, 2012
    This is just great article and it is not the first instance where elders have said something like this. I can remember when I was still associated with the witnesses during the Hurricane Katrina ordeal when they were saying that it was all that immorality that caused “Jehovah” to bring a Hurricane on the people.

    It takes a certain kind of mentally and emotionally crippled mind to continue on as a Jehovah’s Witness. That doesn’t mean the average JW is a bad person, just severely ill.

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  29. Harold July 25, 2012
    It’s quite obvious they (J.W.s) are emotionally crippled in the minds, viewpoins: t, social values and perspectives. Play with dirt and you’ll get dirty. Best to avoid them altogether.

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  30. Melanie July 26, 2012
    Anyone remember going back about 15 years or so, when a non JW went and shot up a Kingdom Hall because his wife was a JW? I believe it was in Texas? The WT was singing a different tune about who was responsible and to blame. But if you go by their reasoning then why didn’t they blame all those JW’s for going to the Kingdom Hall? Why didn’t they take that as a sign that they were doing the wrong thing as to God’s instruction. Because they use what they will to instill fear and control. Those people were a victim of circumstance. Any sane person knows that “sh*t happens” and it’s the luck of the draw. Jah didn’t protect those people at the KH, at the twin towers nor at the movie theatre. I don’t believe in a god personally, but if there is a god, it’s very clear that he doesn’t stop disasters or stop people from being killed…

    I remember being a JW and we would scoff at funerals where they said “God took my baby” because we were told that God doesn’t “take” people, but “time and circumstance befalls them all .” Now they are saying they would have been protected by being JW’s… yeah right!! Never worked before and they preached that for a long time. Hypocrates!!!

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  31. johnny July 27, 2012
    Jws dont go to movies late at night because they are too tired too tired from pissing people off, spying on each other and breaking families apart.

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  32. El~Nunya July 28, 2012
    Jewel, you said “But rest assured that none who drag God’s name in the mud will go unpunished.”

    And that includes the WTS, and by extension, every mislead JW on the planet. The reproach brought upon God’s Name by the WTS/JW’s is a travesty! And they’ve been doing that for 120 years. If the individuals enslaved by that organization don’t wake up to the pseudo-religious manipulation, they’re destined to follow their blind masters into the same black pit.

    Love is the defining characteristic of God’s people. The lack of love and compassion for the victims in Colorado speaks volumes to the spirituality of the JW’s. All you have to do is open your mouth and regurgitate what you’re fed, and the evidence becomes crystal clear.

    So, who’s fault is it that you’re in a false-religious cult serving a man-made god (WTS)?

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  33. johnny July 28, 2012
    Jewel you said an apostate is always an apostate. Majority of jws are apostates. When you leave your religion to join another you are an apostate.
    Jws preach about love and forgiveness, are they really practising what they preach when they are resposible for breaking up thousands of families? When thousands of children live in fear of being abused again and again is that love?
    The problem with jws is that they are very quick to blame other people for their problems but when something bad happens to them they say its a sign of testing.

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  34. Mark Palo August 1, 2012
    In regards to the comment of how JW’s flock to the movies I have a new twist on this. One of my totally brainwashed sons loves his movies. To get around the R rating he buys the movie and then sends it to a video editing company and has any language or sex scenes cut. That way he can keep his position in the congregation and not anger his bOrgette slave mother. This woman used to object to the skits on Laugh In. But then you have to realize she is holier than thee and good and proper (Un)-christian woman. Only problem is her taking the Theocratic Lying too far.

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    Harold Reply:

    Mark: Sounds like you got some issues. It’s good to publicly ‘vent’; but maybe you should pursue professional counselling as it appears your another indirect victim of the J.W. cult.

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    Nico Reply:

    Yes Harold many of us need some counseling after leaving! Luckily for me I visited lots of other churches & I highly advise it Mark. Many provide counseling & allow you to have your own opinions for free. :)

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  35. Mark Palo August 1, 2012
    Harold, thanks for the concern but I have been seeing a mental health professional for some 20 years. Realize that not only did I get the Royal Mind Screwing from the JWs but I was sexually molested at Bethel by a long dead gov bod member. But you are right, I do vent by writing, demonstrating and producing a local cable access show called “Eyes on the Watchtower.” You can catch some of the show on youtube under the title. The only advice I give about the mental health issue is that if a person and their shrink can find a good center line with the necessary medications then don’t mess with it. As long as your health, both mental and physical is what they call in homeostasis one will be fine.

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  36. Brandon August 19, 2012
    I’m right there with you Teeny! I left just a few years ago (i’m 29 now)!

    Back in 2006, I had sex with someone… she told. I got in trouble — things were gong fine and I was brainwashed to believe I should work harder.

    Instead, after going out in “field service” for 20+ hours per month, building myself up… after 10 months, I still was an outcast. Was given no privileges back. One of the “elders” even went home and told his wife and son what I did and who I did it to — apparently the woman was a family friend so they were upset about it.

    News spread that I slept with this woman, and before you know it, people were whispering and made my life hell!

    I went through SERIOUS depression, drinking heavily, contemplating suicide and needing to go to therapy… Then one day, I moved across country and asked myself “Why would a loving God allow this? I thought I was raised to believe that Gods spirit governs this organization… so why is he allowing this?”

    Then it hit me…. BECAUSE IT’S NOT GOVERNED BY GOD’S SPIRIT!!!!

    I left permanently, and I am so friggin happy!!!!! i smile daily. I don’t need prozac. I don’t drink… I’m truly happy!

    My parents keep calling me to come back… I tell them Im grown and make my own decisions… then ask them “don’t you care that your son is happy?”

    Their response “Not without the organization…”

    Yes, it’s a CULT.

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  37. Nico September 6, 2012
    Reading that made me throw up a little in my mouth.

    It reminds me when I brought a friend from HS to a small Monday night meeting, we were in our early 20s, & the Elder late 40′s started making jokes about how great it would be to give out the latest WT @ funerals if the cemeteries hadn’t posted those pesky “No Soliciting” signs . Really ambushing people at funerals while they weak with grief is what he & the Mist Assist were talking, not jokingly, about. I was surprised & embarrassed. She was rightly disgusted. I had to get my WT CD out to prove to the other Elders this was unacceptable on their own terms & had been covered years before. They told me the would not be talking with him, nor would he be recovering the topic but I could write a talk on it myself & give it up front. I wrote one but never gave it. I felt the Elders there were misleading people but I’ve some to realize it’s the WT faith itself that’s misleading. I heard that within months of my 2nd hiatus from meetings “Bethel” came out & that Hall closed. Everyone was redistricted. Really was vindicating because I had been praying for that the whole time!

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  38. Bruce Stevens September 9, 2012
    Reading all these comments about JW action busted me up so many times…It gave me more laughs than the old Woody Allen movie “Love & Death”. I got out of the “Lie” (truth?) back in 1968, when I turned 18. The last straws were being told in a “special” mandatory meeting with the elders, that what everything boiled down to was that I was setting a bad example for some other younger Witlesses because I was worldly (had long hair, wore sandals)…and so if I continued in my appearance, I would be destroyed at Armageddon (which at the time was very close, probably 1975). That did it. I asked them to see my “publishers record card”. I took it. Put it in my pocket & walked away from that cult. I “disassociated” myself before they could “disembowel” (disfellowshit) me. But I had already been brainwashed from birth, and the aftereffects took a heavy toll on me for most of the rest of my life. Please warn anybody that gets sucked in to this damaging cult, not to go there.

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  39. liz October 17, 2012
    @Bonnie…It brought back memories for me also. If it was a story on the news, or if one of us kids would say we felt bad for a child dying, my mother would say, ” Little snakes grow into big snakes, they were already dead in God’s eyes anyways. ” I knew from the time I was a small child, I wanted out of this heartless religion and heartless people. I lived my life for the day I gathered up everything inside of me and left.

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  40. Becky October 18, 2012
    Ummm, wow! The only people I know who went to the midnight showing of batman that night were my niece and nephew, and they are JWs. I believe my nephew is pioneering, but had no qualms about seeing batman. Fortunately, they moved away from Aurora a few years ago, and were in a theater in a nearby town, so they were not at risk. If they still had been in Aurora though, and had been at that theater, ugh, I don’t even want to think about it.
    What a moron to make such statements! Instead of acting like the victims were in the wrong, why not give a talk in which JWs are encouraged to emulate the examples of those who put themselves in harm’s way to protect others that night. There were true heroes there that night, and nobody has the right to act superior to such fine human beings.

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